Monday, April 14, 2008

step right up, ladies and gents!

time to wager your guesses: this is definitley the biggest i've ever carried...so, care to guess the baby's weight?? (at time of birth of course, and who knows when that will be....)

(hint: Mayan was 5 lb 13 oz at 42 1/2 weeks; and Isadore was 4 lb 6 oz at 35 1/2 weeks....Wednesday I will be 39 weeks)



(just in case you forgot the face that goes with this belly:P)

Friday, April 11, 2008

so sad, no boat

thursday, blake got up early to meet the surveyer who would inspect the boat that we were hoping to buy.

just a little background first on WHY we are looking for a new boat, especially since the Flicka is by far blake's dream boat and gift to himself when he turned 40. we LOVE LOVE LOVE the Flicka for sure; its a "salty" boat with tons of character and built like a ship for its humble dimensions. there are only 434 flickas in the world and we have had the time of our lives (as Mayan would say) on ours. BUT it's tiny. for a boat its size, yes, its amazing to have headroom and a kitchen (a "galley"), but it doesn't have a bathroom (a "head".) so a few weeks ago, while on what was supposed to a sleepover for blake and mayan, it was discovered that the potty we usually bring was at home and mayan had to take a poop in a cereal bowl--this lead to a big realization for blake: our boat is not big enough for our growing family. blake and mayan have spent countless hours on the flicka--scrubbing, fixing, puttering, and down-right loving on this tiny beauty. our summer sails on the columbia were memorable and we even got to include some family and friends.

but going out on the water and not having a place to go pee is a pain. knowing that we can only take out a few extra passengers at a time is lame. we want to take out some families with children. we want our own family to have a sleepover and be comfortable. i want to make a grilled cheese sandwich with some elbow room when we come in from a blustery sail.

so blake started looking and soon found a Pearson 365--36' feet (the flicka was 20') with an actual bedroom (captains quarters), and head (with toilet, sink, and a stand-up shower), a bunk for the girls, a clean and spacious galley, a navigation station, and all sorts of storage space to hide the clutter! she is a beauty! and the price was really really great--affordable for us as long as we sold the flicka. we pondered, we visited it a few times, we talked....then we offered. and the owners accepted. just like buying a home, it was contingient on a marine survey and a test sail. you all saw the test sail pictures from last sunday--it was epic.

so back to this thursday....blake met Larry at the docks. Larry had already been at the boat and had seen something that made him say "there is something i need to show you before we continue with the survey..."--a detailed inspection of the rigging (the cables and metal apparatus that the sails attach to) revealed significant damage to the spreaders and upper mast. the mast, the gigantic main pole that is the center of the whole sailing process, had a major "smootch" in it. the analogy here to explain why this is so so bad, is this: imagine an aluminum can...in perfect shape it could hold person's weight if they were to stand on top of it. but one small dent in the side and the can would be crushed by that same person. dent in mast=not good. the estimated value to replace the mast and rigging would be half the value of the boat.

here is where we curse and kick and shake fists at the sky. damn, we were really falling for that boat. even the surveyer was super bummed for us, he agreed that is was a sweet boat, and a sweet deal...but this is a deal breaker. he believes the damage was most likey caused by someone (the dumb owners) hitting a bridge.

*big huge fat sighs*


we're rolling with it though. we're going to wait for the flicka to sell then start shopping when the weather is looking up. looking is always fun--hey, it's blake and mine's favorite passions combined: sailing and shopping!

Wednesday, April 9, 2008

Dorothy goes punk/38 weeks

Isadore accompanied me to the hair salon yesterday where our friend Traci hooked her up with some magenta. I think she should start a band called Dorothy Effin' Gale and the Totos.

38 weeks today. But who's counting?

Sunday, April 6, 2008

just another oh-you-know-i-could-have-a-baby-any-second sundays....

Blake and Mayan got up early to test sail a boat that we have put an offer in on. It's 36 footer, which is the biggest boat Blake has ever sailed. They came back so HIGH from their adventure, it was adorable.

Mayan is a total natural on the boat and in the water. She scrubs decks without a peep and ties knots and just soaks up all the knowledge Blake shares with her about sailing. See how in this picture the boat is leaning really far to one side...that is called "heeling. " True sailers get all excited when you get the side rail to touch the water. Mama NO LIKEY heeling. But look at MG...totally into it. Oy vey, this is Blake's child.....

I spend most of the day in the tub soaking my poor achin' hips, and chatting ont he phone with my sister while Isadore watched the Wizard of Oz (dressed up as Dorothy and clutching her Toto stuffed dog, no less.) When Blake and Mayan got home I fed them then swooped the girls off to see a real professional puppet show of their fave book "StellaLuna" at the Winningstad theatre in downtown Portland. I love living in the city.....

Finally evening....what is the one thing that can get between a man and his Star Trek? A pregnany belly! Don't I look freaked out? That is because I AM! I will be 38 weeks on Wednesday and today I woke up to the feeling like someone had kicked me in the crotch and my pelvic bone was bruised. This proably means the baby has dropped a bit which it looks and feels like. And, oh yeah, if it wasn't for me seeing this picture I would not even know that I have stain on my sweatpants b/c I can't actually SEE my sweatpants.




A few people have asked me why I have not blogged about my blessing. Well, I guess for a few reasons--one being that is was overwhelmingly sweet and it spend days spinning on the wonderfully kind things that were said to me--blogging it wasn't really on my mind. The other reason is that, it was very, very special and intimate. To me a blessing is not merely a party. It was carefully thought out and planned by my best friend Breana, who took great care to make it something that reflected ME, and my wishes. There were parts that were very ceremonial and healing, and really can only be known by those that attended. One of my favorite parts was when we threw our fears in to the fire....one at a time, gathering up our biggest fear and tossing some lavendar into a flame to help let go. I loved this part b/c it wasnt just about me, it was a chance for everyone there to have some healing. And it wasn't as woo-woo as it sounds, really. It's as natural as any room full of compassionate women being present and being open would create for themselves. The most mind-blowing part for me was just hearing what others had to say about me and what characteristics had drawn them to me. Talk about a confidence booster just when you need it the most! I seriously needed a reminder that I AM strong, I do have things to offer the world, I do bring beauty and light, and I will bring all of that into my birth and into my new child's life. How did I forget all of that and let so much fear and doubt in?

Here are a few shots from that day. Our sacred circle in our amazing living room which was the perfect setting:
Me, in my cute new dress, sorting through some gifts sent by Chemynne:

I was so happy to have my parent risk the crappy weather conditions, and embrace a sense of adventure to join me and my family for this event. It really made the day extra wonderful! A picture with the grandkids:

Amy and I due the same time, feeling each other's bellys...Baby Max has the hiccups:
Thank you for who came and filled me up with all of your warmth and love. Those of you who could not attend were very much missed! Breana, you have gone above and beyond for me and I love you!

Sunday, March 23, 2008

sweet! our suite!! it's compleeeeete!

glue-down cork tile: NEVER again. floating cork is SO much better...but on a budget, it was this or nothing. here is B, pulling up the carpet tacks, getting ready to lay 'em down.
mayan took these! go, b, go!

uh-oh, somebody is getting high on the adhesive fumes....

her, too!
(just kidding, it was a low-odor water-based cork adhesive, very mellow)

aw, who could resist those baby blues??

okay, just after this, blake suffered a major back-injury moving a piece of furniture--it sucked! it took a loooong time to finish the project, mostly it got done by him laying one row at a time, everyday after work. poor B! but it finally healed enough for him to bust out the final area last weekend. (thanks to Rich and Breana and Rich's mom for coming over and moving our bed for us!!) today we did most of the final touches.....




huh? who's room is this?

it's the newly done master bedroom! so sexy!
(i love these lamps, we got them at target years ago--they shed the coolest light on the walls. i decided to mount them, so they don't take up bedtable space)

this area is waiting for some photography, a rug, and my favorite swivel rocker...why do we have 2 tv's you ask? well our dumb no-name big screen doesn't communicate with the comcast universal remote, so we watch movies on the wide-screen and tv on the regular tv. tv-heads have to do what tv-heads have to do, you know?

AH!! devil kitty!! no, it's just Humper....note the new curtains covering our badly trimmed balcony doors. HUGE improvement, i tell you.

this room is soooooooo us. i'm beyond excited.


hey, haven't done one of these in a while...35 weeks here (a few days ago)...i look stoned in this picture...HA! i wish! but the "nester" in me does make me want to go in there and clean the fingerprints off of that mirror RIGHT NOW. i'm gonna.

phew, now we can relax...right?

Saturday, March 22, 2008

bathroom remodel

BEFORE:THE INSPIRATION:
DURING:

CLOSER...:

AFTER:


a kitty zone, too

ooh, baby, baby!

Friday, March 21, 2008

What CAN we eat?

Anyone that knows me, knows these two things: we have food allergies and that I am part of an online Mothering community in Portland. What do these two things have to do with each other? Well, as the birth of this child approaches, many moms have expressed their desire to cook us a meal in the weeks after the baby is born. I find this sweet, generous, and so tribal-like that it makes me SO happy that I moved here, although I know my community in Bend would have done (and has done!) the same. Being online, though, puts me in a much larger group of continual "contact" with little effort.

As a mother to a food allergic family though, it puts me in a hard position that really only other food allergic families can truly understand. I have learned how to cook for my family's special needs over years of practice (and many mistakes) and frequently cook two separate meals at the same time (one for Blake and I, and a tweaked version for the girls) and use ingredients that are only safe because they are very particular brand (like bacon, for example--there are only 2 brands that I know of that are safe, but I use it everyday) or make many things at home (like broth and mayo.) So eating out, or eating food made by others, is a major anxiety for me--either there are too many questions to even ask (literally needing to read every single label myself to look for the very hidden things like "stabilizers" and mono-and-di-glycerides) or the information isn't even available and the risk isn't worth it (pain, itching, nightmares...) But as part of a community, it important for me to be able to trust that someone CAN cook for my family if need-be, and there are definitely people who have put in the effort to understand and accommodate our diet--like Allison (who's husband had his own dietary issues so she absolutely knows what lurks in foods) and has provided many a safe meal for us. And Breana, who is always ready with labels for me to read and makes a damn great chocolate cake that is completely soy-free. Of course, my mom, who has been out to countless lunches with me and the girls, and has seen me every time whip out safe food from my purse, ALWAYS checks with me before giving to kids anything new. These things I appreciate more than I can express.

So by request, I have complied a list of recipes that I use regularly, and other dinner ideas that are Perlingieri-safe. I should have done this a long time ago just to have in my recipe binder. The following is 8 specific recipes and then a list of general ideas for anyone who is ever interested in making us a meal.

Dinners:

1)Coq au vin

Ingredients:
2 cups red wine
1 cup chopped yellow onion
1 cup chopped carrot
1 teaspoon sea salt
1 teaspoon dried thyme
1/2 teaspoon dried rosemary, crushed
1/2 teaspoon freshly ground black pepper
2 (8-ounce) chicken breast halves, skinned
2 (4-ounce) chicken thighs, skinned
2 (4-ounce) chicken drumsticks, skinned
1/2 cup white or brown rice flour (about 2 1/4 ounces)
3 bacon slices, chopped (Applegate Farms “Sunday” bacon or Coleman hormome/antibiotic -free from Costco are the two safe nightshade-free bacons)
1/2 cup pitted dried plums, quartered
2 bay leaves
Chopped fresh parsley (optional)


Combine first 10 ingredients in a large bowl; cover and marinate in refrigerator at least 4 hours or up to 24 hours.

Remove the chicken from marinade, reserving marinade, and pat chicken dry. Place flour in a shallow dish. Dredge the chicken in flour; set aside.

Cook bacon in a large Dutch oven over medium-high heat until crisp. Remove bacon from pan, reserving drippings in pan; set bacon aside. Add half of chicken to pan; cook 4 minutes, browning on all sides. Remove chicken from pan. Repeat procedure with remaining chicken.

Remove onion and carrot from marinade with a slotted spoon, reserving marinade. Add onion and carrot to pan; sauté for 5 minutes or until softened. Stir in marinade, scraping pan to loosen browned bits. Add chicken, bacon, dried plums, and bay leaves; bring to a simmer. Cover, reduce heat, and simmer 1 hour and for 20 minutes or until chicken is tender. Discard bay leaves. Garnish with parsley, if desired.
***
2)Asian-style pork meatballs

(I have no measurments for this--i am a guess-timating...you can use your kitchen intuition!)

In a mixing bowl combine:
1 1/2 lbs ground pork
add about 1-2 Tbp maple syrup, 2-3 Tsp sea salt, and 1/4 cup rice flour

Mix with hands and form into 1-inch meatballs. Place on a baking sheet and cook at 325 for about a half hour until they are done.

Serve with long grain brown or white rice (with water or homemade broth) and stir-fry veggies (for example: garlic, onion, ginger with carrots, zuc, bok choy in sesame, sunflower, or safflower oil...)
***
3) Beef and broccoli stir fry

2-3 heads of broccoli
oil for sauteing (safflower, sunflower, canola)
1 1/2lbs beef cut-up for stir-fry (NS will do this for you if they don’t have some on-hand already but it needs to be unseasoned)
2 cloves of garlic, minced
1 cup yellow or white onion, chopped
2 cups beef of chicken broth (this must be homemade or with a “safe label”)
2 Tbs tapioca flour
2 Tbs maple syrup
1 Tbs sea salt

Wash broccoli and saute or steam with salt and pepper until tender-crisp--set aside.

Add oil to pan, saute some minced garlic, onion for a few minutes, then add the beef. Add some liquid (water or broth) if you like.

In a small saucepan, mix together broth, tapioca flour, syrup, and salt, and warm. When meat is almost done, add this mixture and bring to a simmer. Add veggies into the pan as well. TASTE! To get the "take-out" flavor--there should be a good balance of sweet to salty--so if you really taste the maple, add more salt and vice versa.

Serve with long grain brown or white rice.

Variations:
-adding carrots and/or mushrooms to the broc or the rice
-doing a sliced up pork tenderloin instead of beef
***
4)Turkish Lentil-and-Vegetable Soup
(this one could be frozen)

Ingredients:
4 fresh thyme sprigs
4 fresh parsley sprigs
4 black peppercorns
1 bay leaf
1 1/2 pounds lamb shank
8 cups water
3 cups chopped onion
2 cups dried lentils (small french green work best)
2 cups thinly sliced celery
2 cups thinly sliced carrot
1 cup chopped leek
1 cup dry red wine
1 tablespoon fresh or 1 teaspoon dried thyme
3/4 teaspoon sea salt
1/2 teaspoon black pepper
8 teaspoons chopped fresh mint
8 teaspoons red wine vinegar

Place first 4 ingredients on a double layer of cheesecloth. Gather edges of cheesecloth together; tie securely.

Trim fat from lamb shank. Place cheesecloth bag, lamb, and next 11 ingredients (lamb through pepper) in a large Dutch oven. Bring to a boil; reduce heat, and simmer, uncovered, 2 hours or until lamb is tender. Discard cheesecloth bag. Remove lamb shank from soup. Remove lamb from bone, and discard bone. Cut meat into bite-size pieces, and stir meat into soup. Spoon into shallow bowls, and sprinkle each serving with 1 teaspoon mint and 1 teaspoon vinegar.
***
5)Roast chicken (broth-free method)

5lb roasting chicken
olive oil
1 lemon, cut in half
1 head of garlic, with the top cut off
any fresh herbs on hand (parsley, rosemary, thyme...)
sea salt and pepper

Preheat oven to 500. Rub the chicken with a lemon half and exposed garlic cloves, then stuff those inside the chicken (the whole lemon and the galic head) as well as the fresh herbs. Drizzle the outside of chicken with olive oil and season with salt and pepper. Tie the legs together with kitchen string. Place in a roasting pan and roast for 20 minutes (it will make lots of noise at this temperature--that is normal, don’t panic!) then turn oven down to 350 (dont open the door to do this, it might be smoky) and roast for another hour or 1 1/2 hour, turning 180 degrees halfway. Its done when the juices run clear. Pull out and let sit for 15 minutes.

Serve with any two side dishes.
***
6)Sauteed chicken tacos with black beans and cilantro pesto

Beans:
2 cups of dried black beans
lemon juice
2 cloves garlic, crushed
sea salt

Soak beans overnight in warm filtered water and the juice from one lemon. Drain and rinse and put in a pot--add water to cover and bring to a boil. Skim foam off of the top then add garlic. Simmer, covered, for anywhere between 4-6 hours (depending on the size of the bean.) When they are done, drain, and add salt to taste.

Chicken:
1 1/2lbs chicken boneless breasts or thighs or combo of both, cut up into bite sized pieces
1 tsp dried oregano
1 lime

Heat oil in a large skillet, and add the chicken. Season with salt and pepper and oregano (optional garlic powder too) and the juice from one lime. Done when cooked through.

Pesto:
2 cups fresh cilantro leaves
2-4 cloves are garlic
1/2 tsp sea salt
1/4 pine nuts
1/4 to 1/2 cup olive oil

Place cilantro in food processor and pulse until well chopped. Add garlic, salt and pine nuts and blend well. Slowly add oil (if you have that attachment to add liquids drop-by-drop, use that) with motor running until a good paste is formed.

Serve with warmed tortillas (check label for soy ingredients), ripe avocado, sour cream, grated cheese.....
***
7)Pesto with chicken, olives, artichoke hearts and two different pastas

Pesto:
as above but with basil instead of cilantro

Saute some pounded chicken breasts with olive oil and sea salt and pepper until done. Slice into strips. Add some olives (santa barbara brand is what I use--check other brands for hidden ingredients) and artichcoke hearts (same deal, check label) and toss with cooked penne or any pasta.

(NOTE: I usually cook a pot of normal wheat pasta and also a separate pot of gluten-free rice pasta, then divide up the meat and sauce, making a smaller kid batch with rice pasta and a bigger wheat batch for us adults.)
***

8) Sweet and Sour chicken (Nourishing Traditions style)

(this recipe is for 8 so it could be split between 2 families--or for one family, cut recipe in half)

8 boneless chicken breast with skin ON (butcher will do this for you)
1 cup orange juice
1 cup lemon juice
1 cup pple cider vinegar
2 Tbs fresh ginger, peeled and minced
2 Tbs fresh garlic, peeled and minced
3 Tbs oive oil
2 cups chicken stock

Pound chicken breasts lightly to make even. Combine oj, lemon juice, vinegar, ginger, and garlic in saucepan and bring to a boil. Reduce heat and simmer for several minutes. Allow to cool, then add the olive oil. Marinate the chicken in this for several hour or overnight. Remove from marinade, and broil breasts in oven for 7 minutes each side. Keep warm while making the sauce.

Place marinade in saucepan with the chicken stock and boil vigorously until reduced by half. for a thicker sauce you can take 2 tsp of tapioca flour and whisk in a small bowl with some water--when it's dissolved add to the sauce and simmer and stir until thickened. To serve, slice breasts across the grain and serve over rice, with spoonfuls of sauce. Great with steamed cabbage and sauted mushrooms, or veggie stir-fry.
***

Create-a-meal!
(meat-veggie-rice/potato dinners)

(ex: porkchops, applesauce, and greenbeans with mushrooms...chicken breasts, chard, and brown rice...)

Main dish:

*Any cut of pork, lamb, beef, or fish suitable for sauteing, grilling, broiling...prepared simply with salt, pepper, and olive oil, or any other ingredients/herbs found in the other recipes.


Side dishes:

*Green beans with mushrooms
(Cook 1 lb of green beand in boiling water for 4 minutes. Drain and plunge into ice water. Heat up 1 Tbs oil in skillet, add 1/4 cup thinly sliced shallot rings, saute for 2 minutes. Add 2 cups crimini mushrooms, 1/4 tsp sea salt, and 1/4 tsp pepper; saute 4 minutes. Add green beans back in, more sea salt to taste, and stir unitl heated about 1 minute.)
*Mashed sweet pots (I add a little maple syrup and salt at the end)
*Baked potatoes (some regular bakers and 2 sweets)
*Salad w/ vinaigrette
(Salad ideas: mixed greens, grated carrots or zucchini, cucumbers, radish, avocado, sunflower seeds, apples....)
(We can’t eat bottled dressing but homemade vinaigrette is so easy! In a small mixing bowl, combine minced garlic or shallots (about 2 tsp) with 2 Tbs good vinegar--red wine, balsamic, sherry, champagne....let sit for a few minutes. Slowly drizzle in 4 Tbs olive oil while whisking. When emulsified, taste add more oil or vinegar to taste, and sea salt and pepper. Serve on the side or salad will get soggy.)
*Steamed, roasted or sauteed veggies (carrots, zuccinni, broc, squash, chard, beets, mushrooms...),
*Apple sauce
*Basic rice
(brown or white long grain is our favorite, but basmati or any rice works well made
with water or homemade broth)
*Risotto with peas

Broth recipe:
You can use a whole raw chicken cut up (after a few hours pick off the meat for a dish like enchiladas) or you can use the carcass of a roasted chicken (but that chicken cannot have any spices, butter, etc.) Drop the meat in a large pot with 1-2 chopped onions, 2-3 chopped carrots, and 2 stalks chopped celery. Fill with filtered water leaving a few inches at the top, and add 1-2 Tbs raw apple cider vinegar if you have it. If adding vinegar, let sit for 1/2 hour, if not just bring to a boil, turn down heat and cover--simmering gently for 6-12 hours. Optional add a bunch of chopped parsley the last 10 minutes (imparts valuable minerals.) Let cool then, strain into containers. Sit in fridge for fat to rise to the top then skim off (great for cooking with!!)

Do a similar method for beef broth--roast a few pounds of meaty beef short ribs in the oven until brown, about 325 for a half hour. While this is roasting, put a few pounds of knuckle and marrow bones (usually available in the meat dept--ask the butcher) into a large pot and cover with water. Add 1/2 cup apple cider vinegar and let sit. When ribs are done add them along with some chopped onions, carrots, and celery--add water to cover, leaving a little space to the top. Bring to a boil, skim off the foam that forms at the top, and simmer covered for a good 12 hours. Strain, put into containers and skim the congealed fat off the tops after its cooled in the fridge. You can feed the remaining meat and bones to your dog!



Things we can’t have:

Soy (includes lecithin--found in some choc and coconut milk, vitamin e--found in some oils, cooking spray, braggs, “natural flavors”--found in most things with labels, “veggie oil”, mono- and di-glycerides, “stabilizers”, condiments, margerine...it goes on and on!)

Mayan cannot eat any:
*nightshades (tomatoes, potatoes--sweet pots and yams are NOT nightshades, bell and chile peppers, “spices”, paprika, cayenne, curry blends, eggplant)
*corn (also hidden in everything--including possibly iodized table salt--use sea salt instead)
*eggs
*gluten
*dairy (butter, cheese, yogurt, milk)


Other notes:

*Cheese/dairy, corn and nighshades can all be served on the side though! Crumbled cheese, brie, crusty bread from New Seasons, buttery mashed potatoes....

*Also you can make up your own recipes from ingredients from the provided recipes:-)

*Sea salt, herbs like thyme, parsley, rosemary, etc, garlic, onion, ginger are all the basic safe foods I use to flavor our food.



Phew! Maybe over the years I can expand on these and create a whole book....thanks to everyone who has made the offer to provide us with a meal, the gesture itself is very much appreciated.